From Nightclubs to Award-Winning Wedding Host and DJ: How I Overcame My Preconceptions to Embrace Weddings

I never imagined I would become a wedding DJ. Before COVID-19, my world revolved around bars, nightclubs, and the occasional festival. Weddings felt like a different scene, one I thought was too predictable and not for me. I pictured endless plays of "Sweet Caroline" and "Come on Eileen," and I was convinced that wasn’t the vibe I wanted to be part of. But everything changed when I was persuaded to give weddings a chance. This week, on Tuesday, 4th November, I was crowned the Wedding DJ of the Year for the Yorkshire and North East region at the TWIA awards. Now, I’m heading to the national awards in January. This journey from scepticism to success has reshaped how I see weddings and my role as a wedding host & DJ.

Changing My Mind About Weddings

Before the pandemic, my DJ sets were all about house music, R&B, and the soulful sounds I loved in Ibiza. I thought weddings would limit my style and creativity. However, when the nightlife scene paused, I had the opportunity to explore new possibilities. A friend encouraged me to try a wedding gig, and I decided to step out of my comfort zone.

What I found surprised me. Weddings aren’t about playing the same old songs on repeat. They reflect the personalities of the couples and their guests. Each event is unique, with a mix of music that keeps everyone dancing. I realised that my passion for house and R&B could blend perfectly with the diverse tastes at weddings. It’s about reading the room and creating moments that people remember.

What TWIA and Becoming An Award-Winning Wedding Host and DJ Means To Me.

Winning the Wedding DJ of the Year award for Yorkshire and the North East is a huge milestone. It shows that my approach to weddings resonates with clients and industry professionals alike. This recognition is not just about the music I play but about the connection I build with couples and their guests.

The award also motivates me as I prepare for the national TWIA awards in January. It’s a chance to showcase how far I’ve come and the quality of service I provide. For couples searching for a wedding DJ, this accolade is a sign of trust and professionalism.

How I Tailor My Sets for Weddings

Every wedding is different, and I work closely with clients to understand their vision. Here’s how I approach each event:

• Personalised playlists: I ask couples about their favourite songs and genres to include in the set.

• Reading the crowd: I adjust the music on the fly to keep energy high and guests engaged.

• Mixing genres: I blend house, R&B, and popular wedding classics to create a unique vibe.

• Creating moments: From the first dance to the last song, I focus on making memories.

  
  

This approach enables me to deliver a performance that feels authentic and engaging. It’s not about sticking to a formula but about adapting to the mood and personalities present.

Why Couples Should Choose a DJ Who Loves Their Music

Choosing a wedding DJ is about more than just playing songs. It’s about finding someone who understands the couple’s style and can bring their celebration to life. My love for house music and R&B means I bring energy and soul to every set. I’m passionate about creating a soundtrack that fits the couple’s story.

Couples often tell me they appreciate how I mix familiar hits with fresh tracks, keeping the dance floor alive. This balance makes the party enjoyable for all ages and tastes. If you want a wedding DJ who listens, adapts, and loves what they do, it makes a big difference.

Tips for Couples Booking a Wedding DJ

If you’re planning your wedding and looking for the right DJ, here are some tips based on my experience:

• Meet your DJ in person or virtually: Get a feel for their personality and style.

• Ask for references or reviews: Past client feedback can reveal a great deal.

• Discuss your music preferences clearly: Share must-play and no-play lists.

• Check their equipment and backup plans: Reliability matters on your big day.

• Ensure they understand the flow of your event: Timing is key for smooth transitions.

  
  

These steps help ensure your DJ can deliver the experience you want and avoid surprises on the day.

Looking Ahead to the National Awards

Heading to the national TWIA awards in January is an exciting prospect. It’s an opportunity to meet other talented DJs and learn from the best in the industry. More importantly, it’s a chance to raise the profile of wedding DJs who bring passion and professionalism to their craft.

Winning regionally has already opened doors and increased enquiries. I expect the national recognition will help even more couples find an award-winning wedding host and DJ who fits their style and makes their wedding unforgettable.

Final Thoughts on My Journey

From saying I would never do weddings to being named Wedding DJ of the Year, this journey has been full of surprises and growth. It taught me to challenge my assumptions and embrace new opportunities. Weddings are not just events; they are celebrations of love and personality. As a DJ, being part of that is an honour.

If you’re looking for a wedding DJ who brings energy, passion, and a personalised touch, consider someone who loves the music they play and understands your vision. Your wedding soundtrack should be as unique as your story.

This award is just the beginning. I’m excited to keep evolving, connecting with couples, and making every wedding a night to remember.